Impostor Syndrome

Impostor syndrome is a phenomenon whereby you think that you are a phony and may be "found out" despite any success that you may have achieved in that area. People who feel like they are an impostor tend to devalue their contributions, ignore evidence of success or achievement and are unable to internalise their success because the experience of doing well does not tend to change their beliefs about themselves. Impostor syndrome can lead to feelings of fear, shame, guilt, anxiety, depression and burnout.

Some common experiences of impostor syndrome include:Lady holding a half mask over her face looking down

  • chronic self-doubt
  • irrational feelings of being incompetent or inadequate
  • being found out or exposed that you are a phony or fraud
  • attributing your success to luck or external factors
  • personalising constructive feedback
  • comparing yourself to others - "everyone knows so much more than me,"  "no one else is struggling as much as I am,"  or "I am not as smart or capable as others in my unit."
  • feeling that you need to know everything in an area in order to be good at it or contribute to discussions about it
  • setting unrealistic expectations or goals
  • fear that you are not living up to expectations
  • over-prepare or work much harder than is necessary
  • perfectionism
  • procrastination

Does this sound familiar? You are not alone.

According to Valerie Young (Ted Talk Youtube video below), around 70% of people experience impostor syndrome. It can affect any one regardless of gender, race, socioeconomic status, or level of achievement.

How can I combat Impostor Syndrome?

Talk about it

People who experience impostor syndrome tend to internalise it and continue on despite the feelings or thoughts that they are experiencing. Talking about it with trusted others can help to normalise the phenomenon, help to understand that you are not alone, reduce the impact of your thoughts and creates opportunities for others to share how they see you.

Teach others

According to Amy Morin, the best way to combat impostor syndrome is to teach others. If you are in a position to do so, you may look at becoming a PASS leader, run study groups with your peers or take up some casual academic work with your school. Check out the Verywell Mind Friday Fix podcast by Amy Morin on impostor sydnrome.

Find evidence

Look for evidence of your success. Identifying proof of your achievements and competencies can help to combat impostor syndrome. You could also use a reframing technique to gain a more balanced perspective whereby you create a list with two columns - evidence for your fear and evidence against your fear.

Change your thinking

Thoughts are the lifeblood of impostor syndrome! There are a number of ways you can change and challenge your thinking.

  • Celebrate your successes and small wins. If you receive positive feedback, do not rush to brush it off, instead reflect on how it makes you feel and try to improve the way you speak to yourself. External reminders of successes can also be useful, save a copy or print out that feedback and look to it to remind yourself of how others see you. Try to bask in your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem.
  • Normalise your feelings but recognise that these are not facts
  • Be aware of your internal dialogue and challenge autopilot responses
  • Reframing techniques can be particularly helpful. An example may be if you receive a grade lower than you were expecting, you may jump to think "I am a failure." Instead, reframe that thought and find evidence to support that - i.e., "I am not always a failure" and evidence that could help to support that is the markers feedback on your paper, you submitted it on time, you didn't receive a fail grade, or that you submitted the paper despite what was going on at the time.
  • Adjust your standards for success to help let go of perfectionism and to internalise your acomplishments. Allow yourself to make room for small failures to start believing that you cannot know everything or help everyone.
  • Practice self-compassion - would you say the things you are saying to yourself to a friend? Chances are that you wouldn't, so why are you holding yourself to such high standards? Try to watch out for when your feelings and thoughts of being an impostor arise and how you respond to them, then adjust them. Try to be ok with where you are at right now irregardless of your success or accomplishments.
  • Learn from your failures, rather than letting it define you.

Your success is not tied to your value!

Identify your strengths

Take active steps to enhance your awareness of your strengths – for example, identify your learning style and use specific strategies that match this when studying.

Don't let it hold you back

Make space for the imposter syndrome but don’t let it hold you back – jumping in despite these thoughts will give you more evidence of your capacity

Need more help?

Speak to one of our clinicians by reaching out to the UNE Counselling and Psychology Service

Call (02) 6773 2897 or email studentcounselling@une.edu.au